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This phrase is one I have heard over a million times since I was mature enough to understand. It's what we use when we do something for our friends and we just want to let them know it was our pleasure helping.  So for a while now, I've been putting off an invite to hang out with someone but sometime recently, I decided to go on with it. To my surprise, it wasn't a total disaster. He made a lot of sense as regards our personality, the friends we keep and who we become as a result of the kind of friends we have. Here's his opinion; the kind of person you links you up to the kind of people you make your friends. This set of people then reflect on who you become. For example, a student doesn't know much and has poor grades in school but then begins to make friends with the intelligent people or person in the class. This relatioship begins to make positive impacts on his studies and his grades also begins to improve. We make a lot of friends everyday, some by

 In my years as a secondary school student, I was the only child at home with my parents because my other siblings were in boarden house in their respective schools. I learnt to work my chores into my school activities to ensure everything was well attended to. I remember onetime when I had an exam and I didn't want to cook because I really wanted to just read for the exam, I was told that people who write exams also have to eat. It wasn't so easy doing all those chores and still doing well in school but I did and I'm happy about all the lessons I learnt then because they helped me to form habits that are invaluable now. They made me responsible for things even when I feel it's something I shouldn't be bothered about. Responsibility was the lesson and is still the key. Responsibility is a requirement expected of a person as regarding something. It is a response to something, a trait of being answerable to someone. It spreads through all areas of life i

When I was younger, I had a neighbor who had children. Each child had a task to perform everyday after returning from school. It was such that when something hasn't been done, there's someone to hold responsible. This helped to keep every one up and doing in their respective tasks. When every member of a family or organization is responsible for something in particular, it brings about a smooth running of the group. However, when no one is held accountable for anything, no one can be questioned or held responsible for something going wrong. In addition to the responsibility of individuals within a group, there's also personal responsibility as explained in  the eminent part of responsibility . When you live with a habit for so long, it becomes a norm to you that you don't realize it's a bad habit. Irresponsibility is one of those habits that need to be worked on for you to live a happy life. There are signs that reveal an irresponsible person. No mat

The words we speak are descriptions of what we intend to do and revelation of who we are. Most of the times, our words preceed what we plan to do. We speak daily about what we want to do, where we want to go, our desires and dreams, the choices we make and the things we don't want to do. And these end up as a driving force in our lives. We are surrounded daily by friends, family, colleagues and even strangers. Some of them or us even speak without considering the impact of what we say to people, organizations and the nation while some don't. It is therefore very important for us to be careful what we say because our words are powerful. The words you speak does not just affect your life alone. It also affects the people around you. Words can be either be destructive or constructive; they can inspire or destroy; they can help, heal, hinder, hurt, harm, humiliate and or humble. They have so much power that they can start or end wars between nations; destroy relat

Signs and symptoms, physical examination and investigations help a healthcare professional to arrive at a diagnosis for every patient they come across. This diagnosis can be nursing diagnosis or medical diagnosis, which ever one, they go together.  Having a correct diagnosis is paramount in any encounter or consultation between a patient and a healthcare professional. This is because diagnosis directs the treatment regimen best suitable for the patient.  The process of diagnosis is as follows; a patient meets with a medical personnel with some signs (as identified by the medical personnel) and symptoms (as described by the patient). Some ideas on what the diagnosis might be begins to come to mind. The patient is examined and perhaps sent to carryout some labouratory/radiological investigations.  Following an examination and on presentation of the result from the investigations, a diagnosis is either confirmed or dismissed and treatment commences. A diagnosis can ei

People started rushing to the market after the announcement of the Lock-down, to purchase what they'll use during the period. A number of offices were closed as well as shops and other manufacturing and production companies. As the pandemic continues to keep most people at home, altering, slowing down and even totally suspending events and business activities especially those involving the gathering of a number of people, there is also a lot of job losses, salary slashes, delayed payments and crippling of many other economic activities. Irrespective of all this, certain expenses have to be made. The prices of commodities have increased on a double affecting the purchase of items and increasing expenditure over income. Families and individuals are scouting for other ways to live during this period to maintain a happy and healthy life. To achieve this, a number of lifestyle modifications are being made on a daily basis by different people. Aside social distancing,

Have you ever been in that workplace where nothing you do seems to be inline irrespective of the fact that you’re following instructions closely? Do you have that boss who’s never satisfied with what you do even when you do it according to his guidelines? Are you in that job where you’ve been scolded for both what you ought to do and what you’re not responsible for? A job where there’s hostility all around from both co-workers and bosses. Hostility has several effects on both employees and employers. It can make you feel afraid of going to work or even make you quit your job. It can reduce your self esteem, take away your happiness and job satisfaction, reduce your productivity, make you transfer the aggression to others and generally impact your life negatively. Hostility can come in various ways including in; belittling your opinion, spreading rumors behind your back, holding you or your work up to a ridicule, sending unfairly negative information about you to a hig

You know all about how culture and the environment influence our habits and lifestyle in general. In addition to these, there are other things that also have great influence on our habit. Most times, they are not put into consideration but the truth is that we have them all around us. They are all seen in our day to day life. The knowledge of these factors, how they influence you and how to use them in your Favour will help you embrace life and navigate through it with more ease and successfully. These factors are all good things we need in life to live a happy and healthy life when we are able to put them to use positively and also be in charge and not let them take control of our lives. I therefore urge you to remember them as you live day-in day-out, in your career, relationship and life as a whole. The factors I also discovered have effect on the habits we form include; Education. Skills. Social circle Your self assessment Character Money  Educati